உயிரில் கலந்த உறவுகள்

எனது நீண்ட நாள் ஆசை, தமிழில் ஒரு முறை Blog எழுத வேண்டும் என்பது. ஆனால் இதற்காக நான் கடின பட்டது ஒரு தனி கதை. ஏன் என்றால் பிற மொழியின் ஆதிக்கம் நம் மீது மிக அதிகமாக இருப்பதனால்தான். இந்த தலைபிற்க்கும், இந்த தமிழ் மொழி எழுதலுக்கும், நிறைய சம்பந்தம் உண்டு. ஏன் என்றால், தமிழும், என் உயிரின் கலந்த உறவே.

தமிழுக்கும் அமுதென்று பேர், இந்த தமிழ் இன்ப தமிழ் எங்கள் உயிருக்கு நேர்!. பாரதிதாசனின் இந்த வரிகளை படிக்கும் பொழுது, நான் மெய் சிலிர்த்து போவேன். இது போல், நமது உயிரினில் கலந்து விட்ட சில உறவுகளை பற்றி பறிமாறி கொள்ள விரும்புகிறேன்.

தாய், தந்தை, அண்ணன், தங்கை இவ்வாறு பல ரத்த சம்பந்த உறவுகளுடன், எந்த சம்பந்தமும் இல்லாமல், எந்த எதிர்பார்ப்பும் இல்லாமல், நமக்குள் ஒரு வித நிரந்தரமான அன்பையும், மாற்றத்தையும், ஈர்ப்பையும் ஏற்படுத்தும் உறவுகளை எண்ணி வியக்கிறேன். அவர்கள் பல பேருக்கு அவர்களுடைய நண்பர்களாகவும், மனைவியாகவும், கணவனாகவும், காதலன், காதலியகாவும், ஏன் சில பிரபலங்கலாகவும், விளையாட்டு வீரர்களாகவும் இருக்கலாம். இவர்களுக்கு ஏதெனும், சிறு இன்னல் ஏற்பட்டாலும், நமது எண்ணம், செயல் முடங்கி அவர் பக்கமே செல்வதேன்? இவர்களை நேரில் பார்த்து பேசாமல் இருந்தால் கூட, அவர்களிடம் இருக்கும் அன்பு சிறிதும் குறையாமல் இருப்பதேன்? இவர்கள் சிறு தவறு செய்தாலும், அதனை பொருத்து, அவரை வழி நடத்தி செல்ல முடிவதென்? இப்படி பல "ஏன்" களுக்கு விடை, அவர்கள் "உயிரில் கலந்து விட்ட உறவுகள்".

கண்ணதாசனின் சில வரிகளை, இங்கே நினைவு படுத்த விரும்புகிறேன். "ஆலம் விழுதுகள் போல், உறவுகள் ஆயிரம் இருந்துமென்ன? வேரென நீ இருந்தாய், அதில் நான் வீழுந்து, விடாதிருந்தேன்"!

NightLife

This is one of the reasons, for my missing frequency of posts :)

These days, I'm happened to stay late in office 'cos of targets, deliveries, client discussions. Its really a hard practice, when our time elongates, onsite guys from US, starts their day with our ending day. It keeps on stretching for us, makes irritating sometimes. Most of the onsite-offshore discussions, end up with quarrels, that's on different post ;)

Now time to share my (late) Night Life! Mostly after 11 or 12, I start to home in office cab. It’s an interesting journey. Nice breeze, entire silent Chennai streets, drizzling rains (rare), FM nice melodies, Meagre traffic. It’s a thrilling package. Cos, so called busy streets like Pondy bazaar, T.nagar roads looks so silent, as it seems to me, that they too gone for sleep.


Streetsiders, Traffic policemen, Highway drivers, Fastfood cooks, Flowershoppers, Gulfi Selling guys [Gulfi on midnight is a different story ;)] etc., were active members of this Night life.

That 20-30 minutes journey is a cool journey, mostly I like to hear songs, replying missed calls n SMS of friends, sometimes good snaps for my orkut album :). Also I like to look at the moon n cloud movements, its very nice experience. As it seems, just missing all the sorrows n pains to them.

Apart from the stressful day, Nightlife ll be a good treat for a ending note.

Innocent Prayers

From one of the forwarded mails from Mujib[Courtesy], which i liked very much insisted me, to 've a post. As we might 've done this on our infancy.

I just got this mail with pictures of the kids who has written this. I hope the situation will be like, kids were asked to write a letter to god with their prayers. Now some of the innocent prayers on the queue.

"Dear God, I went to this wedding and they kissed right in church! Is that ok?"
[Sure we would 've also had this thought in our mind, when we see people enjoying their romance in temples :D]

"Dear God, If you watch in church on sunday. I will show you my new shoe" [Innocence at its best, nice right?]

"Dear God, Please send Dennis Clark to a different camp this year" [Even I prayed god for a history master, to get transferred at my school age :D]

"Hello God, Instead of letting people die and haveing [Check the spelling] to make new ones why don't you just keep the ones you got now?" [How matured at thought at the small age]

So cute like a art, when i saw with their own handwritings! Even I had many prayers like these to god, at my early age and now. Some came to live & some yet to come. But I believe prayers are making to raise the confidence level on each thing we pray.

I like to quote a proverb here which would be apt, "Prayers are same, praying lips are different"!!!

Friends & Polygon

Today I got a good view on friendship & friends v 've. We can draw our friends with polygons. Yeah true! Interesting!!

But before going into this analysis, i like to quote a good statement about friendship. As Friendship is divine & a good feel, I don't want to describe it with my Amateur statements. But I really love this kural,"Udukkai izhanthavan kai pol ange, idukkan kalaivatham natpu". It means, like a hand when the cloth on ur waist moves, a friend will reach you, when you are in trouble. Such a wonderful comparison, and we all might 've felt this once in our life for sure.

Back to the analysis :D, we take circle, square & triangle. Circle is often called with Friends. Yes friends circle, forms different levels. Inner,Mid & Outer. To the friends with whom you can share all your inner heart feelings and feel yourself within them might come in Inner circle. And the circle extends according to the intimacy, wavelength you have with them.

Square friends are someone like Groups. You may 've them as a group, or had them, when you are into a community or campus etc., Most of the friends in this Square, are interconnected. They all know each other. Sometimes "square" can fit in a "circle" too ;)

And finally Triangle. You will be having some good friends by reference :D. Yeah! someone might 've introduced you a good friend and you will have a good level of relations within this triangle.

So how many circles, squares & triangles you 've?? I leave the other polygons to your choice to bend with :)

Regardless of the polygons, after all friends & friendship are to shape our life! As like a polygon!!!

All about to start

First Post!!!

To start with good words i like..... Mom, Clouds, Flowers, Kids, Ecstasy, Humanity, Moon, etc., etc.,... even i like the word etc., Yes its extra, to add to something..... even this blog is extra to me, as it ll help me to
record something to this world and for me.

Normally, human will be in a passion to express their thoughts in some way they like, kids express their thoughts by laughter & cryings, some people through art. But as people like us, the "IT" imprinted :D needs a outlet to express(scribble) themselves using technology, in their hand. Blogs help them.

The main motive of this blog is just to share the thoughts, communicate good things, develop good relations, maintain the habit of (lost) writing...etc.,especially for self-satisfaction.

So to start with, is a good start always....!!!